Wednesday, January 27, 2010

A Cordova Catch

There is something magical about baseball.  It's a canvas of green and blue, painted as a backdrop for many of the extraordinary experiences in our lives.

Some of my best days ever were spent at the local baseball diamond, hitting pop flies to my young sons, Andrew and Tommy.  Those days are indelible memories - illuminated by bright cerulean skies, framed by the park's giant maple trees, and accompanied by the sounds of aluminum pings and distant laughs from across the grass.

I’d toss baseballs into the air and hit them as hard and high and far as I could.  The two brothers would squint into the sun and chase them deep into the outfield.  Most could only be thrown halfway back, so we kept a rag-tag assortment of baseballs in a bucket at home plate.

The fielders wore their Little League tee-shirts - the Pirates, Cardinals, or Cubs.  On special occasions, Andrew would wear a teal Seattle Mariners jersey.  Tommy had a White Sox jersey that, along with his blonde buzz cut, was a classic.  Photographs I wish I had taken.

I'd offer color commentary on the players.  Over the years, our most memorable expression was, “Cordova makes a diving catch!”   A "Cordova catch" was reserved for the most spectacular, game-saving catch.   Marty Cordova had one of the all time greatest ever SportsCenter baseball highlights.  

Tommy’s interest was eventually diverted from baseball, and he lost his love for diving catches and grass stains.   It was sad.  As if he no longer believed in Santa Claus.

But Andrew's passion didn't fade.   He especially liked pitching, and we practiced between games on our long asphalt driveway.   Late in one little league game, he was waved over to the pitcher's mound and things were never the same.   He loved staring the catcher in the eye.

By the time we reached Sarasota, Andrew felt accomplished and confident.  But he was no match for the pitchers in South Florida, who could throw faster than some professional players.   He tried out as a shortstop, only to compete against a future all-state player, eventually drafted by the Milwaukee Brewers.  

He didn’t make the freshman team but he kept playing.  Spring, fall, and summer ball.  Absorbed into a world of dusty batting cages and fenway-green cinderblock dugouts. 

The sports complex they used was shared by the Baltimore Orioles minor league team, and their players, fresh from the Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico, and Venezuela, would call to each other in Spanish across the field.   Many of their games were played on stormy and steamy nights, with lightning constantly flashing in the distant sky.  One night, the action paused as the Space Shuttle streaked by and created a sonic boom.  

He learned about the mental game of baseball, and fought through periods where we thought he'd give up - but he didn’t.  He made the high school team the next year, and it wasn’t even close.

For the next two seasons, only a few players were allowed to pitch.  Everyone else sat on the bench, including Andrew.  Some never saw the field.  But Andrew was patient.   Before long, the coach was asked to leave and senior year was upon them.

The new coach was from the University of Louisville.  He challenged players to prove themselves to him.   Andrew did.  Then he asked the coach to help him find a college where he could pitch.  But it seemed too late.

Just before leaving to attend Florida State, his coach called to see if he'd be interested in playing at Tallahassee Community College.   We drove there together.   After the tryout, the TCC coach said he liked Andrew as an athlete, a student, and a person.   He offered him a chance to compete for a spot on the team.  No promises.

There were 14 other pitchers competing for the roster.   Some were from other colleges, and some were already on the roster.   He rode his bike to practice, often in the daily South Florida rain.   Other players would call him "Lance" as he locked his bike near the field - he didn't have a car.   He ran, lifted weights, and practiced with the team every day.   Through it all, I know what they saw.  Character.

This week, entering the locker room, someone said to him, "Hey Andrew, you got number 24."  

He called his high school coach to thank him.   He said, “Andrew, this just proves that if you're determined, you never know what you can accomplish.”  

You never do know.  Andrew is one of only a handful of students to earn an IB diploma and one of the few players from his high school now playing on a college team. 

Baseball has been the stage for some extraordinary moments in my life, especially in those grassy fields hitting pop-ups to my boys.  And in Andrew's life.   It has inspired him do some amazing things.

So, whether he strikes out 1000 batters or no one at all as a college player, in my mind he has already accomplished something remarkable.  

It was nothing short of a Cordova catch.  One for the ages.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Michael Kirby's and frozen toes


If you want to claim you were part of the real Chicago experience in your childhood, then you had to freeze your toes off at least once at a Michael Kirby skating rink.  It was a badge of honor, frosty and cold, pinned to your parka.

The Simmerlings spent many a frigid day at Michael Kirby's.   The collosal effort to get everyone dressed, transported, re-dressed and ready to skate must have been worth it.   The rink had a magical attraction.  

The ice was opaque and milky-bluish white, filled with sharp cuts and snow cone shavings.  Stepping on to it for the first time, it was as exhilarating as seeing the grass at Wrigley or Comiskey.  But it did have its down sides.

My mother would lace my black skates so tight it was hard to tell if my feet were numb from the cold or from the lack of circulation.  It was probably both.  And the wool socks worn under our skates just made things worse; they were thick, stiff, and scratchy.   Worn right on our bare feet.  We didn't even know you could wear cotton socks under them.   I guess real skaters didn't.

Shivering between blue lips and chattering teeth, we had to watch my older sister pretend she was Peggy Fleming.  In her fluffy sweater and mittens, she would breeze past us, gracefully skating backwards and cutting sharp circles in the ice.   Showing off.   My brother and I knew it was just the skates.  

I seemed to always be sitting on the ice in a heap, hoping no one would skate over my fingers.  My skates were on too tight for me to stand up.

We had a pair of those skates with the double blades, which were usually placed on my poor brother's feet.  His glasses would fog up even before the tears began to flow. 

Great fun or not, it was certainly a lasting memory of the true Chicago experience.  

The only thing we were missing was Elizbeth Freckly Dawn Ron, locked in a great skating competition against Kristy Yamaguci.

Here is an article from the Chicago Tribune today on whatever happened to John Kirby's ice skating rinks in town.

"In the 1950s, Kirby, a Canadian national champion ice skater and member of the touring Ice Follies group, was lured to the Windy City by Sonja Henie, his well-known skating partner, and Arthur Wirtz, who owned the Chicago Stadium, where Henie's ice shows were a local favorite. After working with some of the world's best ice skaters, Kirby decided it was time to give average people a chance.

... He opened his first ice skating studio in River Forest, in a former garage near Lake Street and Harlem Avenue. At the time, there were fewer than 100 artificially refrigerated ice rinks across the country -- but that was about to change..."

See the link here:

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/chi-wht-micheal-kirby-skating-w-jan15,0,4271682.column

Sunday, January 10, 2010

The long, distant winter

Lasting love transcends distance and time. 

Somos novios

Pues los dos sentimos mutuo amor profundo
Y con eso ya ganamos lo más grande
De este mundo

Nos amamos, nos besamos
Como novios
Nos deseamos y hasta a veces
Sin motivo, sin razón

Nos enojamos
Somos novios
Mantenemos un cariño limpio y puro
Como todos
Procuramos el momento más oscuro

Para hablarnos
Para darnos el más dulce de los besos
Recordar de qué color son los cerezos
Sin hacer mas comentarios
Somos novios

It's just impossible

Nos amamos, nos besamos
Como novios
Nos deseamos y hasta a veces
Sin motivo, sin razón

Nos enojamos
Mantenemos un cariño

Limpio y puro

Yeah

Como todos
Procuramos

El momento más oscuro

Para hablarnos
Para darnos el más dulce de los besos
Recordar de qué color son los cerezos
Sin hacer mas comentarios

Somos novios

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Someday


“Dad”, I said, “Someday I am going to be richer than God and live all by myself."   We were driving back from an errand during his recent visit to Florida.   He just looked straight ahead laughed.  

"No, really dad, I mean it, am going to go off somewhere alone."   He was sitting next to me, tears streaming from his eyes with laughter.  Right, good one. 

I know he remembers.  He'd occasionally escape.  Mysteriously appear in his wool coat and beret at the back door, keys clutched in black leather gloves, looking ready to embark on some important secret mission.  Then he'd speed off in his black LeBaron and head to Moy's all by himself.   There were lots of ready getaways: opera, art, chinese food.

I think he’s gratefully past that now.  Content with memories and cats and work.   And while he admiringly endures the occasional out-of- towner or the evil North Shore lawyer, he's entitled to laugh the knowing laugh.

I remember watching the black ink from his fountain pen dry as he issued checks to Marist or Loyola or to cash.  Long, pale green sheets from his business account; official and important looking documents like a Simmerling family stock certificate.  The original hedge fund. 

There was a time when I knew every single check written from our own blue pastic register.   But that was a long time ago.  Today I have my own complex fund, which tests the laws and limits of the banking system.  The electronic debits fly out of my account like bats streaming from a cave at sunset.

There’s a mortgage payment that begs to be refinanced monthly.  And two rent payments.  While I don’t live in either place, I'm sure they're awesome.  All protected by a homeowner’s policy that jumped so high after Katrina that you’d think our little house took a direct hit and was swallowed into the Gulf.  Even though Chicago was probably closer to being affected than we were.

From time to time, I recall that I actually own three cars and a truck.  Usually that happens when the insurance bill arives.  It's a gagging $4,700, but Julie tells me it's worth it.  I don’t get to drive any of the cars but she tells me they're nice.

On the weekends, I am the treasurer for the Sarasota Philanthropic Committee for the Arts.   I fund movies, sporting events and amusement parks. 

Recently, a friend told me his bank called him about unusual debit card activity.   I was curious, because my bank has never called.  That's odd.   If paying for lunch at McDonald's, Taco Bell, and Chick Filet all at the same time on the same day doesn't constitute "unusual activity", what does?   How about charging items in Chicago, Tallahassee, Tampa and Sarasota on the same day? 

We get Christmas cards from the orthdontist.  Gifts from Sylvan for using a record number of tutoring hours.  Comcast and ADT love us.  And the good people at Home Depot address me by name when I walk in. 

I tell myself that it’s worth it.  That it’s a good investment, like Apple or Google or Berkshire.  Simmerling stock.

I caught a glimpse a few days ago.  Andrew was leaving for college after the holidays, and he leaned down and hugged Julie and closed his eyes.  It was fleeting but I saw it for a brief moment.  I hope my parents see those moments in panorama today.

Maybe I should call my dad and tell him I'm thinking about delaying my move-out date.   I may still feel like escaping now and then, but I think I can hold out a little longer. 

Since I have seven cell phones billed on my Sprint and AT&T accounts, I can probably use one of those.  If they're charged.

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